Free Hugs Campaign

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I did it. 

No, I’m not kidding.

Why?

I saw this phenomenon online about a year ago, read it on newspaper the next day. Read about their convictions… and since then, I thought to myself that if I ever saw them, I should (1)go give them a hug to encourage them to continue with what they are doing, and (2) pick up a card and join them. Naturally, these were just “I should’ve” thoughts.

Yesterday, I saw them. I cowered. Walked past. Both of them. Thankfully, courage prevailed and I turned back. Spoke to them, exchanged numbers. Today, I find myself standing at the orchard underpass holding these huge signs. Yeap, that’s the whole story.

Still, that doesn’t exactly answer the “why” does it?

Basically… I genuinely admire these people. For their courage, their commitment to their conviction. I don’t think I could just stand there and get comfortable while people are out there trying to make the world a better place. Something inside me just doesn’t let that seat easy with me, you get what I mean?

Here’s what Juan Mann (the guy who started it) have to say about it:

I’d been living in London when my world turned upside down and I’d had to come home. By the time my plane landed back in Sydney, all I had left was a carry on bag full of clothes and a world of troubles. No one to welcome me back, no place to call home. I was a tourist in my hometown.

Standing there in the arrivals terminal, watching other passengers meeting their waiting friends and family, with open arms and smiling faces, hugging and laughing together, I wanted someone out there to be waiting for me. To be happy to see me. To smile at me. To hug me.

So I got some cardboard and a marker and made a sign. I found the busiest pedestrian intersection in the city and held that sign aloft, with the words “Free Hugs” on both sides.

And for 15 minutes, people just stared right through me. The first person who stopped, tapped me on the shoulder and told me how her dog had just died that morning. How that morning had been the one year anniversary of her only daughter dying in a car accident. How what she needed now, when she felt most alone in the world, was a hug. I got down on one knee, we put our arms around each other and when we parted, she was smiling.

Everyone has problems and for sure mine haven’t compared. But to see someone who was once frowning, smile even for a moment, is worth it every time.

Go read more about ‘em here.

Then again, no. I’m not a free hugging activist. I believe it is a good campaign to change the world, and I would join it whenever I can. Yet I believe what the world essentially needs is not to be changed, but to be saved. That’s why I believe that the gospel is the only way, and that’s why I dedicated my life to further its cause. Hugs can make your day better, but it doesn’t gives it meaning. Jesus does.

Still, today was an fruitful day. I learnt a couple of interesting things:

- You can’t do something you don’t believe in for long, it is just a matter of time before you quit.
- What you do becomes what you stand for. Even if people criticize you. (I’ve got a middle finger today.)
- Humans are capable of misunderstanding goodness; do good anyway.
- Some people actually don’t smile back!
- Smiles and hugs are free, it is the courage that is costly.
- There is a language that transcends all races: Love
- I was not paid to smile, yet I do. In Tangs, they are paid yet they still do not smile.
- Approach with arms wide open.
- Some people are just waiting for you to ask.
- Committed people draws committed people. 

~ by Zachary on November 20, 2008.

6 Responses to “Free Hugs Campaign”

  1. aww why didnt you ask me along? i’d gladly do it if i werent so stuck at work with 50 things in to-do list.. next holiday, maybe?

    then again, sporeans arent huggy people.. free icecream, more like. if we were to do this down under, we’d get suffocated to death!

  2. hey! let’s do it again soon!

  3. haha i agree with shirls. i think i give hugs like 10 times a day. sometimes, we think hugs are over-rated here. but we still do it, cause it is an universal love language <3

  4. lol. i was in orchard today! but didn’t see you. anyway, our council wanted to do that for vday but the idea got shot down like crazy. but i’m sure it would have been a good experience.

  5. Shirls-
    They intend to do it again on Christmas Eve… Haha, Cheapskate Singaporeans! I had a few aunties coming up to us to ask us if there is there any other free things!

    Chermaine-
    Haha… Let’s see if time allows us this luxury. =)

    Shiyou-
    That true. But even still, II was surprised by the number of hugs I got in Singapore. Close to 50 plus that day! It was raining so we did it in the underpass. They say a normal day can get up to 100+ Surprising eh?

    Nicole-
    Hey, I really understand what you mean. I’m not surprised. The guy who was the backbone behind this campaign also told me how he got shot down by his friends and all. But what was even more inspiring was that He carried on with it. I got tasted a few shots here and there myself too. But looking on the brighter side, we also had a lots of encouragement from the people we hugged as well. Thanks for the positive feedback!

  6. i would like to join in too…

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